Aunt Kathy, you ROCK. Your recipe went really well for our Spring Chef-tacular. It was great fun!! Plus, instead of using frozen pizza dough, I went to the Strip District--please tell me you've been there--and bought some fresh-made dough, and it was GREAT. It was so cheap, too--3 big bags of dough for $3.50!!
The rolls were really fun. I put spinach in them so they could make the contest, and they were a hit. They didn't win because there was a really amazing lasagna with spinach in it, a really good spinach tart, and someone even put spinach in brownies!! I dared them to be creative and put spinach in a dessert if they could, and the brownies were excellent and gooey. ^_^
Life is good--busy, but good. Now, I'm spending all my "spare time" on my last paper and getting ready for finals. No big deal--just big tests!!! It'll be great, though, I just know it.
Mamaw, you rock and are so much fun to talk with on the phone. Just had to put that in there. ^_^
Bryan's good--he rocked a barbecue for work the other day, and they rewarded him with overtime and a really nice gift card. He made the best thing for dinner last night--uber-tender steaks (that they also gave him at the bbq) cooked with fresh morel mushrooms and an amazing cream sauce with asparagus. Yea!! I know I've said this before, but "Oh, the life of a chef's wife!"
Love to all!!!
Tuesday, April 29, 2008
Thursday, April 24, 2008
Stink!
Carly Smithson was AMAZING. I'm bummed that she got voted off of American Idol. It is true, though--at this point, someone has to get kicked off, and being in the top six is phenomenal, but I think she was way better than Brooke and Jason Castro. Alas, the only rocker left is David Cook, who did amazing with "Music of the Night," although I did not appreciate the way he ended it. Yes, he pretty much stuck with the original arrangement, but did he have to do those two different notes at the end? Oh, well.
Another part of TV that makes me sad is that this is Thursday, when I usually watch "Eli Stone." No new "Stone"s until later. Very happy, however, because it clearly said SEASON finale, not SERIES finale. I was sad at the end of Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip to see that the last one WAS officially the last one. Eli Stone will come back, though, because everybody was happy to see him be okay last week. Yea. ^_^
Okay, that's all for TV. My next blog will (hopefully) contain fun pictures from our next church party, "The Spring Chef-tacular," in which our church is having a competition, much like Iron Chef America, and the featured ingredient is spinach. For those of you who don't know the show, a guest chef competes against the Iron Chef of his/her choice in making 5 dishes that feature an ingredient. I watch these cooking shows because of Bryan, who will be our judge. ^_^ I will be using Aunt Kathy's pepperoni rolls recipe and adding spinach to them. (Hope I do them justice, Aunt Kathy!) Pictures to come soon! ^_^
Love to all! ^_^
Another part of TV that makes me sad is that this is Thursday, when I usually watch "Eli Stone." No new "Stone"s until later. Very happy, however, because it clearly said SEASON finale, not SERIES finale. I was sad at the end of Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip to see that the last one WAS officially the last one. Eli Stone will come back, though, because everybody was happy to see him be okay last week. Yea. ^_^
Okay, that's all for TV. My next blog will (hopefully) contain fun pictures from our next church party, "The Spring Chef-tacular," in which our church is having a competition, much like Iron Chef America, and the featured ingredient is spinach. For those of you who don't know the show, a guest chef competes against the Iron Chef of his/her choice in making 5 dishes that feature an ingredient. I watch these cooking shows because of Bryan, who will be our judge. ^_^ I will be using Aunt Kathy's pepperoni rolls recipe and adding spinach to them. (Hope I do them justice, Aunt Kathy!) Pictures to come soon! ^_^
Love to all! ^_^
Thursday, April 17, 2008
7 Random Things
Okay, Deborah, here we go. ^_^ Thanx, I feel special ^_^
1) (In accordance with hers about her cat) My dog's name is Stryker, but Bryan and I call him Monkelbean, Monkelstein, Puppymup...oh, dear, we need kids so we can use baby-talk for another good...^_^
2) Thursday is not Thursday until I've watched Eli Stone, which is a shame because tonight is the season finale
3) I smile at myself in the mirror, making me feel confident
4) I want several dogs, including a black Cane Corso named Nero (for those of you who don't know, a Cane Corso is an Italian dog and Nero means black), a French Bulldog named Franko--simply because I like "k" better than "c", and probably another coupla boxers--maybe we don't need kids--we can just use the baby-talk on all our dogs
5) I LOVE shoes. I would rather spend money on a hot new pair of shoes than on chocolate. For many women, this may be a tie... The best day would include a mocha and a new pair of shoes ^_^
6) I am in love with premarital therapy. I want to encourage all couples getting married to do premarital therapy to find out the best and worst before committing to a lifelong decision. I want my clients fulfilled and self-actualized. ^_^
7) I love blogging and facebook. I am sad sometimes because some of my friends and family are far away, and these outlets keep y'all closer to me. I love you so much!!
Love to all, K ^_^
1) (In accordance with hers about her cat) My dog's name is Stryker, but Bryan and I call him Monkelbean, Monkelstein, Puppymup...oh, dear, we need kids so we can use baby-talk for another good...^_^
2) Thursday is not Thursday until I've watched Eli Stone, which is a shame because tonight is the season finale
3) I smile at myself in the mirror, making me feel confident
4) I want several dogs, including a black Cane Corso named Nero (for those of you who don't know, a Cane Corso is an Italian dog and Nero means black), a French Bulldog named Franko--simply because I like "k" better than "c", and probably another coupla boxers--maybe we don't need kids--we can just use the baby-talk on all our dogs
5) I LOVE shoes. I would rather spend money on a hot new pair of shoes than on chocolate. For many women, this may be a tie... The best day would include a mocha and a new pair of shoes ^_^
6) I am in love with premarital therapy. I want to encourage all couples getting married to do premarital therapy to find out the best and worst before committing to a lifelong decision. I want my clients fulfilled and self-actualized. ^_^
7) I love blogging and facebook. I am sad sometimes because some of my friends and family are far away, and these outlets keep y'all closer to me. I love you so much!!
Love to all, K ^_^
Friday, April 04, 2008
Thank you!!
Why am I grateful? There are so many reasons. I'm now taking the time to share for those who want to know. ^_^
1) God ROCKS. So many times I've let Him down, and yet He continues to rescue me.
2) Bryan is the most amazing blessing. He blindsighted me. I never saw him coming. Times that I tried in the past to come up with who I wanted to be with, and there are characteristics he has that I never thought of until I realized how miserable I would be without him in my life.
3) My family is so cool. I had a fun convo with my mom last night, by phone of course, but I felt her love and warmth radiating through the phone. My dad is hilarious. He and I share a love of bad puns, so when I tell a dumb joke, I blame it on him. ^_^ Love you! Kim and Kreg are so reliable and are special, and I can't imagine never having them in my life. Curtises and Kells (alphabetically ^_^), YOU ROCK.
4) Stryker provides the comic relief in my life. He's here to cuddle with me when I'm bummed--he can always tell when I'm irritated or just need to talk. Plus, I don't have to worry about him coming back with the perfect advice. He just listens. ^_^ (I think all women should have dogs...)
5) My friends are SO awesome. I have different friends for different things. Y'all are my partners in crime, my encouragement, my laughter and tears. Without you, I'd have to just go to random places, just to be around people. ^_^ I'm blessed to have y'all in my life.
6) My church. Zelienople is so beautiful! The people are there for me, and I have a place in the church, somewhere special that I can contribute and belong to. We are led by a great preacher who is humble and honest, and he would do anything for the church.
7) My education. This ties into my family--thanx for encouraging me to go to school and to work my heart out for something hard but WORTH it.
8) My passion encourages me to keep going. I love being on fire for things, be it God, church, family, education, dancing, music, etc. People always ask why I smile all the time. The answer? My passion through God's mercy. ^_^
Thank you God for all of this, and help me to remember this when I complain about difficult things in life.
Love to all! ^_^
1) God ROCKS. So many times I've let Him down, and yet He continues to rescue me.
2) Bryan is the most amazing blessing. He blindsighted me. I never saw him coming. Times that I tried in the past to come up with who I wanted to be with, and there are characteristics he has that I never thought of until I realized how miserable I would be without him in my life.
3) My family is so cool. I had a fun convo with my mom last night, by phone of course, but I felt her love and warmth radiating through the phone. My dad is hilarious. He and I share a love of bad puns, so when I tell a dumb joke, I blame it on him. ^_^ Love you! Kim and Kreg are so reliable and are special, and I can't imagine never having them in my life. Curtises and Kells (alphabetically ^_^), YOU ROCK.
4) Stryker provides the comic relief in my life. He's here to cuddle with me when I'm bummed--he can always tell when I'm irritated or just need to talk. Plus, I don't have to worry about him coming back with the perfect advice. He just listens. ^_^ (I think all women should have dogs...)
5) My friends are SO awesome. I have different friends for different things. Y'all are my partners in crime, my encouragement, my laughter and tears. Without you, I'd have to just go to random places, just to be around people. ^_^ I'm blessed to have y'all in my life.
6) My church. Zelienople is so beautiful! The people are there for me, and I have a place in the church, somewhere special that I can contribute and belong to. We are led by a great preacher who is humble and honest, and he would do anything for the church.
7) My education. This ties into my family--thanx for encouraging me to go to school and to work my heart out for something hard but WORTH it.
8) My passion encourages me to keep going. I love being on fire for things, be it God, church, family, education, dancing, music, etc. People always ask why I smile all the time. The answer? My passion through God's mercy. ^_^
Thank you God for all of this, and help me to remember this when I complain about difficult things in life.
Love to all! ^_^
Tuesday, April 01, 2008
Spring has SPRUNG!!!!!!
There's a tune on my lips and a song in my heart!!! I"m so excited. I'm wearing a TEE-SHIRT today, and I don't have to have a big, bulky coat over it. Were I still living in the south, I would read this blog and think, "Wow, you're weird," but now I totally appreciate the warmer weather a LOT better than before. I've been looking forward to this since Friday, when I looked at the news and it said that Tuesday, the weather would be in the 60s. It IS!!! So excited.
I hope that everybody is as happy today as I am. If you're not, here's to Spring Cheer radiating from the screen and into your hearts so you can sing with merriment. "Tomorrow, tomorrow! I love you, tomorrow!!..." Wait, why love tomorrow when you can love TODAY? Just a thought--I should still love today, even if later it rains, as it's supposed to. I will, however, rejoice in the fact that I can go outside and smile at the sun. ^_^
Sending loving, happy, warm thoughts your way!!!
^_^
I hope that everybody is as happy today as I am. If you're not, here's to Spring Cheer radiating from the screen and into your hearts so you can sing with merriment. "Tomorrow, tomorrow! I love you, tomorrow!!..." Wait, why love tomorrow when you can love TODAY? Just a thought--I should still love today, even if later it rains, as it's supposed to. I will, however, rejoice in the fact that I can go outside and smile at the sun. ^_^
Sending loving, happy, warm thoughts your way!!!
^_^
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Mama's, maybe you should let your babies grow up to be cowboys...^_^
Like I would know. I don't have kids. I couldn't be prouder of the men in our family, by the way. Papaw is the best man I know. He's wise, and he's strong, which is one of the reasons so many people are naming their babies after him. Way cool.
I have uncles who hunt, and their strength is spiritual as well as physical. My uncles are also strong intellectually and are good daddies. Good daddies raise good sons to be good daddies in the future. My dad is the same way. ^_^
So why this topic? I'm reading "Wild at Heart" by John Eldredge, and the message I've gotten thus far is "Society has emasculated men." Strong statement. Do you think this is true or false? I think the book is good so far, and I like that this book encourages men to find the wildness within and use it to be good, Christian men. I believe that men who are chastised for being men will have severe issues and deep depression, leading to ultimate death. I also believe that God created men and women different for a reason. There are strengths and weaknesses in each sex, which is why marriage between the two is such a perfect concept. I say concept because the individuals who marry are definitely not perfect. Just ask Bryan if I'm perfect. (Brace yourself for the laughter.) Anyway, so what do you think? Does society emasculate men? If they do, why? Thanx ^_^
I have uncles who hunt, and their strength is spiritual as well as physical. My uncles are also strong intellectually and are good daddies. Good daddies raise good sons to be good daddies in the future. My dad is the same way. ^_^
So why this topic? I'm reading "Wild at Heart" by John Eldredge, and the message I've gotten thus far is "Society has emasculated men." Strong statement. Do you think this is true or false? I think the book is good so far, and I like that this book encourages men to find the wildness within and use it to be good, Christian men. I believe that men who are chastised for being men will have severe issues and deep depression, leading to ultimate death. I also believe that God created men and women different for a reason. There are strengths and weaknesses in each sex, which is why marriage between the two is such a perfect concept. I say concept because the individuals who marry are definitely not perfect. Just ask Bryan if I'm perfect. (Brace yourself for the laughter.) Anyway, so what do you think? Does society emasculate men? If they do, why? Thanx ^_^
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Life is but a mist...
Wow, James had it right. A friend of mine from Harding died the other day. He was a great guy, and he died of an enlarged heart. I'm not putting his name up to protect his family, but he was a good man. There wasn't a person who met him who wasn't touched by his compassion and congeniality.
Death affects us all, making us wonder what we're doing TODAY that will make life better for those around us. Makes me not want to waste time fighting about small things. I'm just shocked that he died. God be with him and his family.
This is my prayer for you, family and friends, whom I love. Live today as if you won't have tomorrow. I guarantee you will tell your spouse you love him/her even more. We won't fight over petty things. My Bible will be read today. Prayers that might not be said will be prayed today.
God, I pray that we will make our lives count, making each moment a service to you.
Love to all, Kristi
Death affects us all, making us wonder what we're doing TODAY that will make life better for those around us. Makes me not want to waste time fighting about small things. I'm just shocked that he died. God be with him and his family.
This is my prayer for you, family and friends, whom I love. Live today as if you won't have tomorrow. I guarantee you will tell your spouse you love him/her even more. We won't fight over petty things. My Bible will be read today. Prayers that might not be said will be prayed today.
God, I pray that we will make our lives count, making each moment a service to you.
Love to all, Kristi
Saturday, March 08, 2008
Catch-up
Okay, I was going to wait until I could attach pictures, but I'll just write now and post pics later. This has been a crazy month--this meaning the end of February and the beginning of March. School's great--took the first of my mid-terms and have another one to take when I get back from Spring Break on Tuesday. I took a personality test and found out that I am still an extrovert. I know, color me shocked. Church is better and better, having made new friends that go there now, as they just recently placed membership. I'm always glad for new friends. Hmmm, why am I an extrovert? ^_^
Okay, new paragraph. SNOW. Snow has been here for a long time. It went away briefly and came BACK. It's okay. Bryan and I had fun with the dog in it and will be posting pics on our blog in a coupla days. We made a snowman and had fun with it. Stryker, of course, kept trying to knock it over. Imagine that. ^_^
Concert. My birthday was the other day, and my dear wonderful husband surprised me with tickets to see BON JOVI. We have the same birthday, for those whodidn't know. It was a blast! Chris Daughtry opened for him, and for those who do not watch American Idol, he made it to 5th place a few years ago. He was WAY better than Taylor. Taylor who? Exactly. Taylor did a few car commercials and then few people have heard of him since. Oh, well. Daughtry covered Guns 'N Roses "Paradise City." Okay, after Axl Rose has sung it, it takes a while for me to accept another version of it. Daughtry did, however, cover Motley Crue's "Home Sweet Home"--the beginning of it to open into "I'm Coming Home," and did nicely. Personally, I think people should be careful with covers, especially since certain people do it way better than others should attempt. OH, well.
AS for Bon Jovi, wow. He rocked. He did all the classics, except "Wanted Dead or Alive" which made me mad, but at least he did the others. Of course, he did the final encore with "Living on a Prayer." Wouldn't have it any other way.
Okay, enough music talk. That wasn't the only fun thing for my birthday. WE went bowling! It was fun. I'm still a lousy bowler but it's the one thing I love to do even when I can't do it well. What can I say, I'm competitive. No idea where I got this. ^_^
Spring Break has been thoroughly enjoyable. I actually used some of it to study. ^_^
Love to all! ^_^
Okay, new paragraph. SNOW. Snow has been here for a long time. It went away briefly and came BACK. It's okay. Bryan and I had fun with the dog in it and will be posting pics on our blog in a coupla days. We made a snowman and had fun with it. Stryker, of course, kept trying to knock it over. Imagine that. ^_^
Concert. My birthday was the other day, and my dear wonderful husband surprised me with tickets to see BON JOVI. We have the same birthday, for those whodidn't know. It was a blast! Chris Daughtry opened for him, and for those who do not watch American Idol, he made it to 5th place a few years ago. He was WAY better than Taylor. Taylor who? Exactly. Taylor did a few car commercials and then few people have heard of him since. Oh, well. Daughtry covered Guns 'N Roses "Paradise City." Okay, after Axl Rose has sung it, it takes a while for me to accept another version of it. Daughtry did, however, cover Motley Crue's "Home Sweet Home"--the beginning of it to open into "I'm Coming Home," and did nicely. Personally, I think people should be careful with covers, especially since certain people do it way better than others should attempt. OH, well.
AS for Bon Jovi, wow. He rocked. He did all the classics, except "Wanted Dead or Alive" which made me mad, but at least he did the others. Of course, he did the final encore with "Living on a Prayer." Wouldn't have it any other way.
Okay, enough music talk. That wasn't the only fun thing for my birthday. WE went bowling! It was fun. I'm still a lousy bowler but it's the one thing I love to do even when I can't do it well. What can I say, I'm competitive. No idea where I got this. ^_^
Spring Break has been thoroughly enjoyable. I actually used some of it to study. ^_^
Love to all! ^_^
Thursday, February 14, 2008
The best husband award goes to....
Bryan!!! He made me a lovely Valentine's Day dinner--was excellent--gave me a basket of beauty products and chocolates, and he played with me and Stryker in the snow. Yea!!!!!!!!!
I'm so blessed to have a hubby like him. He's so fun!
May all your Valentines Days be lovely!
By the way, my shoulders are still sore from shoveling my walk way for the FIRST TIME EVER. Packed snow is heavy! Felt like She-ra. ^_^
Love to all!
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Why Won't the Foo Fighters come to Pittsburgh???????
It's so unfair! This is one of mine and Bryan's favorite bands. They are truly inspirational with their lyrics and amazing songs.
Must go to Philadelphia or Chicago to see them. Hmmm...maybe... will let you know if I go. Will be a very excited post. ^_^
Love to all!
Thursday, January 24, 2008
"Carry On, Wayward Son"
Don't you love how sometimes you randomly pick a song to listen to, and it portrays just how you feel? This morning, I put on one of my "random" CDs, meaning it could have Evanescence, Sheryl Crow, 702, all the way to Kansas and back. What can I say, I like different styles of music, and I never know what music mood I'll be in, so I have several CDs that have several styles in one.
Anyway, I LOVE this song. People attribute many different meanings to it. It ranges from a spiritual quest to soldiers in war to people dying of a terminal illness. However you interpret this song, the ultimate message is HOPE. HOPE for the weary. HOPE for the distraught. HOPE for the confused. HOPE for all.
Here are the words. May you all feel more hopeful after reading this blog.
Love to all! ^_^
PS--thanx to Jonathan Root for introducing this song to me years ago in the Admissions Office. ^_^
Carry on Wayward Son Lyrics
Artist(Band):Kansas
Carry on my wayward son,
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry no more
Once I rose above the noise and confusion
Just to get a glimpse beyond this illusion
I was soaring ever higher, but I flew too high
Though my eyes could see I still was a blind man
Though my mind could think I still was a mad man
I hear the voices when I'm dreamin', I can hear them say:
Carry on my wayward son,
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry no more
Masquerading as a man with a reason
My charade is the event of the season
And if I claim to be a wise man, it surely means that I don't know
On a stormy sea of moving emotion
Tossed around I'm like a ship on the ocean
I set a course for winds of fortune, but I hear the voices say:
Carry on my wayward son,
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry no more
Carry on, you will always remember
Carry on, nothing equals the splendor
Now your life's no longer empty
Surely heaven waits for you
Carry on my wayward son,
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry
Don't you cry no more
Anyway, I LOVE this song. People attribute many different meanings to it. It ranges from a spiritual quest to soldiers in war to people dying of a terminal illness. However you interpret this song, the ultimate message is HOPE. HOPE for the weary. HOPE for the distraught. HOPE for the confused. HOPE for all.
Here are the words. May you all feel more hopeful after reading this blog.
Love to all! ^_^
PS--thanx to Jonathan Root for introducing this song to me years ago in the Admissions Office. ^_^
Carry on Wayward Son Lyrics
Artist(Band):Kansas
Carry on my wayward son,
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry no more
Once I rose above the noise and confusion
Just to get a glimpse beyond this illusion
I was soaring ever higher, but I flew too high
Though my eyes could see I still was a blind man
Though my mind could think I still was a mad man
I hear the voices when I'm dreamin', I can hear them say:
Carry on my wayward son,
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry no more
Masquerading as a man with a reason
My charade is the event of the season
And if I claim to be a wise man, it surely means that I don't know
On a stormy sea of moving emotion
Tossed around I'm like a ship on the ocean
I set a course for winds of fortune, but I hear the voices say:
Carry on my wayward son,
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry no more
Carry on, you will always remember
Carry on, nothing equals the splendor
Now your life's no longer empty
Surely heaven waits for you
Carry on my wayward son,
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry
Don't you cry no more
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
To my beautiful family!
I love you so much!!! I've had the best time playing games, singing songs, opening presents, and eating meals with these people. I only wish that Bryan could have been with us, but he had to work a few extra days and could not make it for this trip. I've had a blast, at any rate. Whether it was seeing a movie and doing a whirlwind shopping tour with my mom or playing Musical Catchphrase with cousins and sister and Mom, or eating Christmas lunch at the farm, this has been filled with wonderful and special activities. There are many more pictures to come. I will put a few on my blog, but I will put probably all of the rest on facebook.
Hope everyone has had as lovely a Christmas!!! Love to all! ^_^
Thursday, December 13, 2007
I did it!
I registered. I know, I'm such a slow-poke, but now the computer knows that I'm registered for spring classes. Freud would say that subconsciously, I don't want to return to school. Ellis would swear at me for being lazy and tell me it's about time. Satir would say that it's good that I registered now because I have the potential to be a great counselor because there is potential for change as long as I receive the right amount of nurturance. It's fun being in the counseling program! I learn so many cool things.
So I'm done with Stats.
I'm done with Group--for now.
I'm done with Development, except for physically.
Just one more final.
Why am I typing a blog instead of studying? Well, for one, people come first. For two, if I study one more MINUTE, my head may just explode. I think I will do well. I hope I will do well. Please!! Anyway, I hope my last blog didn't depress anybody too much. I was really trying to encourage, but oh, well. I can't take anything back, so I'm doing what I can to make this one positive.
Oh, and by the way, my last party at church was really fun. We had "A Night at the Oscars," in which we honored people for their achievements and funny quirks. We had a blast and dressed up really pretty for the event. The guys were handsome in suits and girls wore pretty dresses.
Anyway, I hope everybody's doing well. Have fun with the rest of your plans for Christmas!!!! Love to all! ^_^
Kristi ^_^
So I'm done with Stats.
I'm done with Group--for now.
I'm done with Development, except for physically.
Just one more final.
Why am I typing a blog instead of studying? Well, for one, people come first. For two, if I study one more MINUTE, my head may just explode. I think I will do well. I hope I will do well. Please!! Anyway, I hope my last blog didn't depress anybody too much. I was really trying to encourage, but oh, well. I can't take anything back, so I'm doing what I can to make this one positive.
Oh, and by the way, my last party at church was really fun. We had "A Night at the Oscars," in which we honored people for their achievements and funny quirks. We had a blast and dressed up really pretty for the event. The guys were handsome in suits and girls wore pretty dresses.
Anyway, I hope everybody's doing well. Have fun with the rest of your plans for Christmas!!!! Love to all! ^_^
Kristi ^_^
Thursday, December 06, 2007
Renewed Respect for the Elderly
In my development class, we've been talking lately about the elderly and their characteristics. I've learned many things that make me hopeful about the way I age and will one day share my acquired wisdom as they do. Erik Erikson discusses generativity, which "involves reaching out to others in ways that give to and guide the next generation," (Berk, 2007, p. 530). Although this starts in midlife, adults continue this tradition as they age. Unfortunately, although the elderly have acquired a vast wealth of knowledge, some people stereotype the aged in negative ways. "Like gender stereotypes, age stereotypes often operate automatically, without awareness; people "see" elders in stereotypical ways even when they appear otherwise," (Berk, 2007, p. 572). When people believe the stereotypes, they forget to treat older people as human, immediately assuming that they can't do things for themselves, leading to an "other"-fulfilling prophecy.
When I read this, I wrote this poem. I hope you like it. Anybody who knows me knows that I am a passionate person, and I felt that I had to share my feelings with others.
"Who you callin' Old?"
Don't call me old, or I will be.
Don't talk as if I can't hear, or I won't hear you.
Don't act as if I can't see, or I won't see you.
Don't pepper my food as if I can't taste, or I won't like to chew.
Don't patronize me, or I'll justify it.
Don't baby me, or I'll need a stroller.
Don't act as if I'm stupid, or I will be.
Just curious--how do you want to be treated when you're older?
I'm a person, you know it, who deserves respect.
I'm not a person to look down upon.
Love and appreciate me, don't you dare neglect.
I've learned many things since my life began its dawn.
I'm your mother, your father, your sister, your brother.
I've give you love, please give it back.
With patience, encouragement, and understanding
You will find there's nothing that I lack!
The circle of life is a ring of beauty
In its completion from infant to grown.
Respecting this circle is each person's duty,
Sharing a love that everyday should be shown.
So my child, remember these words
As you bound through life in the best shape ever.
The nature of sharing is of utmost importance.
"Laugh often, love much," and be an encouragement giver.
*Quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson
Thank you for listening! ^_^
Factual information from
Berk, L.E. (2007). Development Through the Lifespan. Boston: Pearson Education, Inc.
When I read this, I wrote this poem. I hope you like it. Anybody who knows me knows that I am a passionate person, and I felt that I had to share my feelings with others.
"Who you callin' Old?"
Don't call me old, or I will be.
Don't talk as if I can't hear, or I won't hear you.
Don't act as if I can't see, or I won't see you.
Don't pepper my food as if I can't taste, or I won't like to chew.
Don't patronize me, or I'll justify it.
Don't baby me, or I'll need a stroller.
Don't act as if I'm stupid, or I will be.
Just curious--how do you want to be treated when you're older?
I'm a person, you know it, who deserves respect.
I'm not a person to look down upon.
Love and appreciate me, don't you dare neglect.
I've learned many things since my life began its dawn.
I'm your mother, your father, your sister, your brother.
I've give you love, please give it back.
With patience, encouragement, and understanding
You will find there's nothing that I lack!
The circle of life is a ring of beauty
In its completion from infant to grown.
Respecting this circle is each person's duty,
Sharing a love that everyday should be shown.
So my child, remember these words
As you bound through life in the best shape ever.
The nature of sharing is of utmost importance.
"Laugh often, love much," and be an encouragement giver.
*Quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson
Thank you for listening! ^_^
Factual information from
Berk, L.E. (2007). Development Through the Lifespan. Boston: Pearson Education, Inc.
Monday, December 03, 2007
By the way, for anyone who's already seen this, I added another question..^_^
Welcome to the Holiday edition of getting to know your friends.
(By the way, when there is clearly a response to another response, the first response is Rachel's answer--when I agreed with her I figured I'd save time typing.)
1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? If the gift is already in a box, I wrap with paper. It's fun for me ^_^
2. Real tree or artificial? I prefer a real tree, but we don't have room for one yet. Ours is a sad little artificial tree that sits on a table. Okay, first off, don't knock the little artificial tree--Bryan and i have one too, but this year we're getting a real one. ^_^
3. When do you put up the tree? ASAP after Thanksgiving!
4. When do you take the tree down? January-ish.
5. Do you like eggnog? I like its non-alcoholic equivalent, custard. YUMMMMMMM.
6. What about Fruitcake? Oooh, scary!!!
7. Favorite gift received as a child? I remember screaming for joy when I got "The Little Mermaid". I was equally happy when I bought it again last year.
8. Do you have a nativity scene? No--I really don't care for those. ditto
9. Hardest person to buy for? people I'm just getting to know--hello, gift cards!!
10. Easiest person to buy for? Bryan
11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? Actually, learning how to respond happily to a gift you don't want builds character--return it afterward. ^_^
12. Mail or email Christmas cards? Mail!
13. Favorite Christmas Movie? Claymation Christmas ROCKS
14. When do you start shopping for Christmas? When I find the perfect present
15. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present? I don't think so...
16. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Puppy chow!! For those who don't know, this is chex mix with peanut butter and powdered sugar, not real puppy chow...
17. Clear lights or colored on the tree? Clear
18. Favorite Christmas song? By Alvin and the Chipmunks: The Christmas Song and All I Want For Christmas, almost anything by Mannheim Steamroller, although their latest CD was not as good--more Muzak-like, and my mom's Karen Carpenter Christmas tape--it's old--need to find it on CD! She may have already, though...
19. Travel for Christmas or stay at home? Lots of traveling--Texas and Arkansas this year!!!! ^_^
20. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer? Yes, as well as the other one--Olive!!! ^_^
21. Angel on the tree top or a star? Whatever's prettiest, although when I was a kid we always had an ordeal trying to keep the angel on top of the tree.
22. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? Now that I'm married, I have to do what Bryan wants, which is open them Christmas morning, although since we're spending Christmas in Arkansas this year, it'll be Christmas Eve--Whatever, I'm flexible
23. What is the one present you want most this year? "Transformers"!!!!
24. Most annoying thing about this time of year? Freezing cold weather--AMEN, although you people below the Mason-Dixon line don't have snow throughout May like we do!!!
25. What I love most about Christmas? Spending time with family and eating good food--again, AMEN ^_^
26.--I added a question--What do you miss most about Christmas? Christmas with ALL the extended family and having everybody sing while the cousins--little cousins, now that the cousins are all grown up--play with their new toys. I would so love to see this happen sometime!!!
Love to all!!! I want to hear all of your answers!!!
(By the way, when there is clearly a response to another response, the first response is Rachel's answer--when I agreed with her I figured I'd save time typing.)
1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? If the gift is already in a box, I wrap with paper. It's fun for me ^_^
2. Real tree or artificial? I prefer a real tree, but we don't have room for one yet. Ours is a sad little artificial tree that sits on a table. Okay, first off, don't knock the little artificial tree--Bryan and i have one too, but this year we're getting a real one. ^_^
3. When do you put up the tree? ASAP after Thanksgiving!
4. When do you take the tree down? January-ish.
5. Do you like eggnog? I like its non-alcoholic equivalent, custard. YUMMMMMMM.
6. What about Fruitcake? Oooh, scary!!!
7. Favorite gift received as a child? I remember screaming for joy when I got "The Little Mermaid". I was equally happy when I bought it again last year.
8. Do you have a nativity scene? No--I really don't care for those. ditto
9. Hardest person to buy for? people I'm just getting to know--hello, gift cards!!
10. Easiest person to buy for? Bryan
11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? Actually, learning how to respond happily to a gift you don't want builds character--return it afterward. ^_^
12. Mail or email Christmas cards? Mail!
13. Favorite Christmas Movie? Claymation Christmas ROCKS
14. When do you start shopping for Christmas? When I find the perfect present
15. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present? I don't think so...
16. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Puppy chow!! For those who don't know, this is chex mix with peanut butter and powdered sugar, not real puppy chow...
17. Clear lights or colored on the tree? Clear
18. Favorite Christmas song? By Alvin and the Chipmunks: The Christmas Song and All I Want For Christmas, almost anything by Mannheim Steamroller, although their latest CD was not as good--more Muzak-like, and my mom's Karen Carpenter Christmas tape--it's old--need to find it on CD! She may have already, though...
19. Travel for Christmas or stay at home? Lots of traveling--Texas and Arkansas this year!!!! ^_^
20. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer? Yes, as well as the other one--Olive!!! ^_^
21. Angel on the tree top or a star? Whatever's prettiest, although when I was a kid we always had an ordeal trying to keep the angel on top of the tree.
22. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? Now that I'm married, I have to do what Bryan wants, which is open them Christmas morning, although since we're spending Christmas in Arkansas this year, it'll be Christmas Eve--Whatever, I'm flexible
23. What is the one present you want most this year? "Transformers"!!!!
24. Most annoying thing about this time of year? Freezing cold weather--AMEN, although you people below the Mason-Dixon line don't have snow throughout May like we do!!!
25. What I love most about Christmas? Spending time with family and eating good food--again, AMEN ^_^
26.--I added a question--What do you miss most about Christmas? Christmas with ALL the extended family and having everybody sing while the cousins--little cousins, now that the cousins are all grown up--play with their new toys. I would so love to see this happen sometime!!!
Love to all!!! I want to hear all of your answers!!!
When I'm a little stressed, I find a joke is most therapeutic...
The Ol' Geezer
Moses, Jesus and some 'ol geezer are going to play a round of golf. Moses tees off and the ball goes right into the pond. No problem! Moses walks over parts the water and hits the ball again, where it lands about one foot from the first hole.
Jesus then tees off and the ball goes flying off to the left, hits a tree, then miraculously bounces to about six inches from the hole.
The 'ol geezer steps up, tees off, the ball heads right for the pond. A huge bass jumps up and grabs the ball in its mouth. Then, suddenly, an eagle swoops down, grabs the bass and flies over the green. The bass drops the ball and it rolls to just about two inches from the hole! All of a sudden a worm pops up and knocks the ball in. A hole in one!
Moses looks at Jesus and says, "You know, I really hate it when your dad plays with us."
Love to all! ^_^ Oh, and I may keep an A in Stats!! I'm very happy about this...
Moses, Jesus and some 'ol geezer are going to play a round of golf. Moses tees off and the ball goes right into the pond. No problem! Moses walks over parts the water and hits the ball again, where it lands about one foot from the first hole.
Jesus then tees off and the ball goes flying off to the left, hits a tree, then miraculously bounces to about six inches from the hole.
The 'ol geezer steps up, tees off, the ball heads right for the pond. A huge bass jumps up and grabs the ball in its mouth. Then, suddenly, an eagle swoops down, grabs the bass and flies over the green. The bass drops the ball and it rolls to just about two inches from the hole! All of a sudden a worm pops up and knocks the ball in. A hole in one!
Moses looks at Jesus and says, "You know, I really hate it when your dad plays with us."
Love to all! ^_^ Oh, and I may keep an A in Stats!! I'm very happy about this...
Monday, November 19, 2007
These things for which I am thankful...^_^
A husband who loves me and does everything in his power to support and provide for me
A puppy dog who comforts me when I am sad, resting his head on mine so I can have a puppy hug--those are great...
A mom and dad who (albeit separately) love me and would do anything for me, who raised me to love God and go to church, who taught me to love my family and know that family comes first
A sister who taught me to love myself and make it more important than how others think about me, and who got me into the field of Psychology in the first place
A brother who was there when my sister was out of town, to comfort me when things were difficult and we were all adjusting to "new living arrangements", and who was there to walk me down the aisle on the happiest day of my life
A set of cousins who make me laugh and with whom I share many memories: singing/selling tickets for a penny, swinging on the tire swing, and now can be connected with "electronically" as well ^_^
A family of in-laws who are a blessing in many ways and who will be a delight with whom to spend Thanksgiving
A church family who loves me and accepts me as their "Ministress of Fun" ^_^
God, you are beautiful and you give me so much. What right have I to complain? I love you!
Monday, November 12, 2007
Whee-hoo, pictures!!!
These are pictures from Halloween, in which Bryan was black Spidey, I was Sonny, and my friend, the other ministress of fun, was Cher. We had so much fun!!! Enjoy!! ^_^
Thursday, November 01, 2007
Hiatus...
So I gotta say, I love the ability to communicate through computers. I'm SO getting the internet at my house...eventually. In the meantime, I have a small window of time where I can "play" as opposed to working on the computer--papers, research, etc. When I'm finally able to play, I spend a lot of time on facebook, sending dumb little messages, throwing sheep at people--those who are not on facebook, you can uncrinkle your brows, it's legit--commenting on people's walls. It's way fun. I've totally negated my cousin responsibility to blog!! This blog is more of a written update, and the next blog--coming soon, really--will be pictures from our church Halloween party. We had so much fun!!! We actually called it a Harvest party because of certain people being offended, but hey, everybody has an opinion. I'm just glad all you cousins dressed up your kids and made them look adorable. I for one, am looking forward to seeing a picture of my little nephew dressed as Mr. Incredible.
Anyway, Mom says that everybody wants to know about school. It's great! I have really fun teachers, one of which reminds me of Richard Dreyfuss from "What About Bob", except for the fact that he's not mean. ^_^ He's my favorite--it's okay, none of my teachers read this blog. ^_^ I have a presentation today, and it will go well. I made the power point pretty without being obnoxious. How many of us have seen presentations where the presenter thought that every single letter should spin in so that by the 3rd slide, you have a massive headache or are feeling nauseated? Creativity with LIMITS. Who knew I'd ever say that?? ^_^
I have papers due in a few weeks, but I've already done some good research for one of them, and the other won't be very difficult because I already know where I'm going on it.
the people here are great. Kinda funny--you know how people say "The Harding Bubble"? People say the same thing about Geneva. It's cool. People can say what they want--I know what I believe and am not being shielded from reality. Haven't heard enough about school? Call me, I'll tell all. ^_^
Love life is GREAT. Bryan is the best husband in the whole world. Rachel, I laughed when I read your blog about making dinner and how it was a big deal for you--I feel the same way--I'm married to someone who makes my already lacking cooking skills seem null and void!!! I do try sometimes, but why cook when my husband can make it way better than I can? What I actually prefer is when we cook together. he's taught me how to make risotto, although I haven't tried it by myself because I don't want to mess it up, but I'm sure I could do it ifall the food in the world had vanished and all I had left to make was risotto. Just give me a pan and stove, don't forget the parmigiana reggiana, please!!
Bryan is doing well--they really like him at work and are beginning to give him projects on his own to research. For those who don't know, he works on pre-made food to find ways of making it taste better for less money. He does research and works with all those ingredients that no one can pronounce on the backs of packages. ^_^ I'm really proud of the work he does for Heinz.
Stryker is happy at the house. He loves to get in the cornfields and run like crazy. He would do that all day if we let him, but I make sure to give him some good running time a few times a week. He's got so much energy!!! Ah, the joys of being a 2-year old dog: running, water, food, playing with toys, and a little bit of affection from Bryan and me.
Nuff said. Finally. ^_^
Anyway, Mom says that everybody wants to know about school. It's great! I have really fun teachers, one of which reminds me of Richard Dreyfuss from "What About Bob", except for the fact that he's not mean. ^_^ He's my favorite--it's okay, none of my teachers read this blog. ^_^ I have a presentation today, and it will go well. I made the power point pretty without being obnoxious. How many of us have seen presentations where the presenter thought that every single letter should spin in so that by the 3rd slide, you have a massive headache or are feeling nauseated? Creativity with LIMITS. Who knew I'd ever say that?? ^_^
I have papers due in a few weeks, but I've already done some good research for one of them, and the other won't be very difficult because I already know where I'm going on it.
the people here are great. Kinda funny--you know how people say "The Harding Bubble"? People say the same thing about Geneva. It's cool. People can say what they want--I know what I believe and am not being shielded from reality. Haven't heard enough about school? Call me, I'll tell all. ^_^
Love life is GREAT. Bryan is the best husband in the whole world. Rachel, I laughed when I read your blog about making dinner and how it was a big deal for you--I feel the same way--I'm married to someone who makes my already lacking cooking skills seem null and void!!! I do try sometimes, but why cook when my husband can make it way better than I can? What I actually prefer is when we cook together. he's taught me how to make risotto, although I haven't tried it by myself because I don't want to mess it up, but I'm sure I could do it ifall the food in the world had vanished and all I had left to make was risotto. Just give me a pan and stove, don't forget the parmigiana reggiana, please!!
Bryan is doing well--they really like him at work and are beginning to give him projects on his own to research. For those who don't know, he works on pre-made food to find ways of making it taste better for less money. He does research and works with all those ingredients that no one can pronounce on the backs of packages. ^_^ I'm really proud of the work he does for Heinz.
Stryker is happy at the house. He loves to get in the cornfields and run like crazy. He would do that all day if we let him, but I make sure to give him some good running time a few times a week. He's got so much energy!!! Ah, the joys of being a 2-year old dog: running, water, food, playing with toys, and a little bit of affection from Bryan and me.
Nuff said. Finally. ^_^
Thursday, October 04, 2007
Confession...
I've not been the best voter. Granted, I've had only two chances to vote thus far. This year I've decided to be a more informed voter. I'm taking a human development class at Geneva, in which we've discussed education and its need of reform. Teachers are not paid nearly what they deserve, and children read far below their reading level. (Thank you, Mom, for reading to me when I was young!) There are many factors involved, but part of it is a system that doesn't work. Many intelligence tests that children take do not tap their full potential and level of intelligence. I'm determined--being a not-yet mom who wants really good school systems for her kids--to consider candidates' ideas on school reform when I vote next year.
The confession is that I knew what I knew mostly by listening to other people. This time is different because I'm looking online and paying more attention to debates, as there is so much communicated nonverbally that is not communicated in print.
I'm more excited about voting than I have been in the past two times, and I plan on being a better voter. Besides that, I must pray that God will give us a great president who will stand on his own two feet and lead us to better school systems, better healthcare, and justice for all.
The confession is that I knew what I knew mostly by listening to other people. This time is different because I'm looking online and paying more attention to debates, as there is so much communicated nonverbally that is not communicated in print.
I'm more excited about voting than I have been in the past two times, and I plan on being a better voter. Besides that, I must pray that God will give us a great president who will stand on his own two feet and lead us to better school systems, better healthcare, and justice for all.
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